Stop Looking Over…He’s Dead

how to forgive a parent who never parented and had the unmitigated gall to die before you made amends

The scene

It was a scorching hot day in mid- December. If I’m honest almost every damn day is a scorching hot day because I live in the Caribbean. So, that did not make this day at all remarkable but scurrying in late to my father’s funeral did, I suppose. I often wonder if he would…